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		<title>By: The Investor</title>
		<link>http://monevator.com/2009/10/10/don%e2%80%99t-kill-yourself-over-a-job/comment-page-1/#comment-27856</link>
		<dc:creator>The Investor</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 08 Mar 2010 13:30:51 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Interesting thoughts Leslie, thanks for sharing. It&#039;s curious because all we ever here in the UK is how easy the French worker&#039;s life is. But as you correctly point out there is a downside to this inflexibility in the labour market that gives them job safety.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Interesting thoughts Leslie, thanks for sharing. It&#8217;s curious because all we ever here in the UK is how easy the French worker&#8217;s life is. But as you correctly point out there is a downside to this inflexibility in the labour market that gives them job safety.</p>
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		<title>By: Leslie Juvin</title>
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		<dc:creator>Leslie Juvin</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 07 Mar 2010 13:37:05 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hello Investor, 

I am glad that you&#039;re talking about the serious issues of job related depression and I thought I might add some additional insight into the France telecom/French employment issues to enhance your article.

As a resident in France and coach for clientele in Europe and U.S.A. , I can tell you that France telecom is a seriously inefficient company with operations problems. It takes weeks upon weeks to do a simple internet/cable connect and customer service is very weak and inefficient. This type of inefficiency isn&#039;t limited to the French culture itself; this is a universal problem. 

Economically and culturally, most French people are unemployed on average of 18-24 months. Yes, that&#039;s up to two years without employment. I can safely assume that these employees may get social aid from the French government in the event of quitting their job, but they must prove a lot of things and can easily be denied aid on the whim of a government worker. If you do qualify for help, it can take around 6 months to get the paperwork processed (if somebody doesn&#039;t lose your file) and a check in your bank account. 

The hiring processes in France are very strict with rigorous psychological exams (for those in mid and upper level management); a client of mine took 5  hours of exams in one session. The country still analyzes handwriting! Employment taxes are very high, adding to the additional hesitancy of hiring new employees. A friend of mine is an attorney for major companies in France (like FNAC) and she reported the frustrations with strict hiring laws and the social/job security issues alive today. 

In essence, the organizational problems coupled with social/economic quandaries have a huge impact on depression and the ability for employees to respond such difficulties. People in France are talking about this, but the problem is much deeper and will hopefully reach a resolution as the French business culture is evolving with greater international connectivity. 

Thanks for allowing my thoughts. :D 
-Leslie Juvin</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hello Investor, </p>
<p>I am glad that you&#8217;re talking about the serious issues of job related depression and I thought I might add some additional insight into the France telecom/French employment issues to enhance your article.</p>
<p>As a resident in France and coach for clientele in Europe and U.S.A. , I can tell you that France telecom is a seriously inefficient company with operations problems. It takes weeks upon weeks to do a simple internet/cable connect and customer service is very weak and inefficient. This type of inefficiency isn&#8217;t limited to the French culture itself; this is a universal problem. </p>
<p>Economically and culturally, most French people are unemployed on average of 18-24 months. Yes, that&#8217;s up to two years without employment. I can safely assume that these employees may get social aid from the French government in the event of quitting their job, but they must prove a lot of things and can easily be denied aid on the whim of a government worker. If you do qualify for help, it can take around 6 months to get the paperwork processed (if somebody doesn&#8217;t lose your file) and a check in your bank account. </p>
<p>The hiring processes in France are very strict with rigorous psychological exams (for those in mid and upper level management); a client of mine took 5  hours of exams in one session. The country still analyzes handwriting! Employment taxes are very high, adding to the additional hesitancy of hiring new employees. A friend of mine is an attorney for major companies in France (like FNAC) and she reported the frustrations with strict hiring laws and the social/job security issues alive today. </p>
<p>In essence, the organizational problems coupled with social/economic quandaries have a huge impact on depression and the ability for employees to respond such difficulties. People in France are talking about this, but the problem is much deeper and will hopefully reach a resolution as the French business culture is evolving with greater international connectivity. </p>
<p>Thanks for allowing my thoughts. <img src='http://monevator.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_biggrin.gif' alt=':D' class='wp-smiley' /><br />
-Leslie Juvin</p>
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		<title>By: alfonso pilato</title>
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		<dc:creator>alfonso pilato</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 30 Nov 2009 00:25:39 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>In the jungle, predators  feast over the weak. Brutal but true. 

In a &quot;civilization&quot;, a &quot;society&quot;, worldly posessions are the &quot;quicksand&quot;. If you want to get out of danger, let go of them.  Simple, yes? Only a child can see that. The more we grow the more we lose that discernability.  Stay young at heart, said so many time, but so true.

Put in zen terms, let go of all worldly attachments and you&#039;ll be free and happy.  Give to the needier. There will always be one needier than you.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In the jungle, predators  feast over the weak. Brutal but true. </p>
<p>In a &#8220;civilization&#8221;, a &#8220;society&#8221;, worldly posessions are the &#8220;quicksand&#8221;. If you want to get out of danger, let go of them.  Simple, yes? Only a child can see that. The more we grow the more we lose that discernability.  Stay young at heart, said so many time, but so true.</p>
<p>Put in zen terms, let go of all worldly attachments and you&#8217;ll be free and happy.  Give to the needier. There will always be one needier than you.</p>
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		<title>By: The Investor</title>
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		<dc:creator>The Investor</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 10 Nov 2009 09:12:22 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Jelle, thanks for your comments. I understand why you think it&#039;s inappropriate to talk about people who have killed themselves; my view is it&#039;s such a serious matter that we really *must* talk about it. I don&#039;t speak specifically about any individuals here, which would be harder to defend in my view, but it wouldn&#039;t stop me doing it in what I believed was a respectful fashion. Compared to the way innumerable news oulets rake over the details of murder and death for public titillation, I don&#039;t think my linking this post with the spate of suicides to make a serious point is that bad by comparison. I accept your view differs.

As someone who has suffered from depression myself many years ago, I certainly do not trivialise it - the whole point of this post is I think it&#039;s a serious issue. Your view I take from your reply is that other people should have helped them or at least not failed them - employers, the unions. In my view, relying on other people/the world to make things better is one of the things that keeps people depressed/in a cycle of despair. For huge areas of industry over the past 30 years in Western Europe and the US, such a strategy would have been suicidal as swathes of industry were mothballed and jobs sent overseas. Relying on unions/employers would have ended in misery - and indeed you see that in many former industrial communities in the UK and I suspect the US.

Finally, the issue isn&#039;t what they did, for whom it is clearly too late. The issue is what we/readers do, and what they&#039;re attitude is. If this post makes people less reliant on the whims of an employer, and more able to derive their strength of self from within themselves, then I&#039;m content it&#039;s done it&#039;s a positive contribution.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Jelle, thanks for your comments. I understand why you think it&#8217;s inappropriate to talk about people who have killed themselves; my view is it&#8217;s such a serious matter that we really *must* talk about it. I don&#8217;t speak specifically about any individuals here, which would be harder to defend in my view, but it wouldn&#8217;t stop me doing it in what I believed was a respectful fashion. Compared to the way innumerable news oulets rake over the details of murder and death for public titillation, I don&#8217;t think my linking this post with the spate of suicides to make a serious point is that bad by comparison. I accept your view differs.</p>
<p>As someone who has suffered from depression myself many years ago, I certainly do not trivialise it &#8211; the whole point of this post is I think it&#8217;s a serious issue. Your view I take from your reply is that other people should have helped them or at least not failed them &#8211; employers, the unions. In my view, relying on other people/the world to make things better is one of the things that keeps people depressed/in a cycle of despair. For huge areas of industry over the past 30 years in Western Europe and the US, such a strategy would have been suicidal as swathes of industry were mothballed and jobs sent overseas. Relying on unions/employers would have ended in misery &#8211; and indeed you see that in many former industrial communities in the UK and I suspect the US.</p>
<p>Finally, the issue isn&#8217;t what they did, for whom it is clearly too late. The issue is what we/readers do, and what they&#8217;re attitude is. If this post makes people less reliant on the whims of an employer, and more able to derive their strength of self from within themselves, then I&#8217;m content it&#8217;s done it&#8217;s a positive contribution.</p>
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		<title>By: Jelle</title>
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		<dc:creator>Jelle</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 09 Nov 2009 19:48:45 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>This is not a very nice post at all. Basically you are scolding these that got in suchbig trouble that the only way out they saw was suicide, and you are telling them that they are stupid for letting their job get the better of them? Nice talking, until you find yourself in such a position. The awful point is that they were in that situation, with those horrible consequences. I think it is very bad taste you chose this subject for your grandstanding-look-at-me-I-know-it-better. 
On the other hand, maybe these people ended up in shitty positions because their unions did not allow for layoffs, and this was their companies response: put them in a shitty job until they leave by themselves. A sign of a rotten corporate culture IMHO. But nobody would have known if these people were &#039;just&#039; laid off.  So contrary to your brave jobhopping ethic, some people cannot handle the stress that uncertain employment brings with it. Your approach would be to just leave them to kills themselves and I think that is very very wrong.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This is not a very nice post at all. Basically you are scolding these that got in suchbig trouble that the only way out they saw was suicide, and you are telling them that they are stupid for letting their job get the better of them? Nice talking, until you find yourself in such a position. The awful point is that they were in that situation, with those horrible consequences. I think it is very bad taste you chose this subject for your grandstanding-look-at-me-I-know-it-better.<br />
On the other hand, maybe these people ended up in shitty positions because their unions did not allow for layoffs, and this was their companies response: put them in a shitty job until they leave by themselves. A sign of a rotten corporate culture IMHO. But nobody would have known if these people were &#8216;just&#8217; laid off.  So contrary to your brave jobhopping ethic, some people cannot handle the stress that uncertain employment brings with it. Your approach would be to just leave them to kills themselves and I think that is very very wrong.</p>
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		<title>By: The Investor</title>
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		<dc:creator>The Investor</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 13 Oct 2009 17:14:22 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I agree David, but I see it&#039;s an easy trap to fall into. It makes some sense perhaps if it&#039;s your own company or a vocation you love, but if it&#039;s just for the money...

Even then I do a blog called Monevator so I can&#039;t really complain about the urge to maximise earnings -- but I&#039;d (a) urge such people to buy future investment income with most of it (not &#039;stuff&#039;) and (b) remember they are, in the politest way possible and compatible with living in a decent society, in it for themselves, not for their employer.

Creating an expensive lifestyle full of obligations that you can only finance with a high paying job you don&#039;t like that exists on the whim of an employer = disaster.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I agree David, but I see it&#8217;s an easy trap to fall into. It makes some sense perhaps if it&#8217;s your own company or a vocation you love, but if it&#8217;s just for the money&#8230;</p>
<p>Even then I do a blog called Monevator so I can&#8217;t really complain about the urge to maximise earnings &#8212; but I&#8217;d (a) urge such people to buy future investment income with most of it (not &#8216;stuff&#8217;) and (b) remember they are, in the politest way possible and compatible with living in a decent society, in it for themselves, not for their employer.</p>
<p>Creating an expensive lifestyle full of obligations that you can only finance with a high paying job you don&#8217;t like that exists on the whim of an employer = disaster.</p>
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		<title>By: David @ Money Under 30</title>
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		<dc:creator>David @ Money Under 30</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 13 Oct 2009 16:50:06 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I see so many of my friends defining their entire lives by their jobs. They&#039;re actually proud of working 100 hour weeks (their only facebook status updates are how much they are working!) 

I just say to myself, why, why, why?

Life is about so much more than work. Sure, we should take pride in our jobs and do good work, but at the end of the day we work to put food on the table and allow ourselves to do the OTHER things we want to do with life.

The sooner people get this, the happier they&#039;ll be!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I see so many of my friends defining their entire lives by their jobs. They&#8217;re actually proud of working 100 hour weeks (their only facebook status updates are how much they are working!) </p>
<p>I just say to myself, why, why, why?</p>
<p>Life is about so much more than work. Sure, we should take pride in our jobs and do good work, but at the end of the day we work to put food on the table and allow ourselves to do the OTHER things we want to do with life.</p>
<p>The sooner people get this, the happier they&#8217;ll be!</p>
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		<title>By: Jesse</title>
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		<dc:creator>Jesse</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 11 Oct 2009 02:29:33 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>That&#039;s so sad, especially the younger people. I mean, early thirties? Is your job really that important that you would prefer to just end it all? 

I wonder if any of the deaths were connected. Maybe they all work for the same company and if so, someone should probably look into this a bit more ;)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>That&#8217;s so sad, especially the younger people. I mean, early thirties? Is your job really that important that you would prefer to just end it all? </p>
<p>I wonder if any of the deaths were connected. Maybe they all work for the same company and if so, someone should probably look into this a bit more <img src='http://monevator.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: Lee</title>
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		<dc:creator>Lee</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 10 Oct 2009 20:51:56 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I should have read this post before I posted &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.fivepencepiece.com/2009/10/two-steps-forward-three-steps-back/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Two Steps Forward, Three Steps Back&lt;/a&gt; a moment ago. You have picked me up off my floor, just a little.

Thank you.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I should have read this post before I posted <a href="http://www.fivepencepiece.com/2009/10/two-steps-forward-three-steps-back/" rel="nofollow">Two Steps Forward, Three Steps Back</a> a moment ago. You have picked me up off my floor, just a little.</p>
<p>Thank you.</p>
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		<title>By: Two Steps Forward, Three Steps Back &#124; Five Pence Piece</title>
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		<dc:creator>Two Steps Forward, Three Steps Back &#124; Five Pence Piece</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 10 Oct 2009 20:45:35 +0000</pubDate>
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